Why you shouldn’t get married?…. I want a divorce.

People get married for the wrong reasons. Either they just feel in love and simply don’t why the fell in love or they really just fell into lust. Either way these are the wrong reasons to get married.

If your intentions are to be in a long term relationship with someone. You should not be in a relationship to trade services. No one says I trade you very much.

And so in order to be in a long term relationship it is important to enter it not for the sake of not wanting to be by yourself but so you can grow spiritually. The fastest way to have spiritual growth and to become more enlightened is to cause another to grow spiritually. Find something that you can do to enhance your mate. I want to divorce the old ideas I have about marriage. These old programming that no longer serves me and adopt a new philosophy. I have been married for 12 Years.

I think what has worked for us is I entered the relationship looking for a way to empower my husband. He has been finding ways to empower me. Our relationship is not the same as it was in the beginning. We must accept change. We must understand that nothing stays the same.

The oldest dated rocks on Earth, as an aggregate of minerals that have not been subsequently broken down by erosion or melted, are more than 4 billion years old.

Yet even rocks change. Although they are changing a lot slower than we as humans are. I challenge you to divorce your old concepts of what a relationship means to you and rewrite the script. You gain a more meaningful, rich and powerful relationship. Thanks